The Art of Losing Someone
Falling in love is simple yet complicated. For me, it happened unintentionally... I fell into it and loved it. But sometimes relationships don't always pan out the way we wanted them to. We fight, we argue, we love, make love, fear, dance, embrace, shy away, and even fall apart. Now, it is the falling apart that I will speak on today... There is an art to losing someones, someone you loved and still love deeply. By no means is it easy, but it is an art, a process, a logical, spiritual and emotional journey. You'll embrace many different emotions, ranging from love, sadness, anger, self loathing, happiness then sadness again. It does take time to "get over" that person, however, what I realized for myself is when you shared a deep bond with that person, the ending is even harder. First off, admit and forgive . Not just the other person, but yourself. Be honest with yourself, remind yourself that you were a piece in the unsuccessful relationship and come to term...